Surefire Tactics to Meet Girls in College

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High school is over and it’s time to matriculate in more ways than one.

With the passing of a momentous occasion in your life you now find yourself poised and prepared to head off to college where, among the homework, study sessions, pizza, and parties, you will have the chance to meet what you have been dreaming of for your entire high school life – College Girls!

While you may have been a maverick at the school you were just at, you might find that girls in college aren’t as impressed by your achievements as your previous interests might have been.

For some, meeting new people in a new environment can put knock you off of your game and make others retreat to the sidelines completely to avoid the ever so brutal rejection shots.

For others, meeting people was never their forte, and at a time when hormones are high and the urge to experiment is even higher, meeting girls in college can seem like an insurmountable task.

But it doesn’t have to be! Girls in college, like every other human being, ARE PEOPLE!

And because they are people, you can do typical people things to meet, chat, and even…wait for it…go on dates with them! It doesn’t matter if you are:

  • Shy

  • Quiet

  • Nervous

  • Inexperienced

  • Have a Fear of Rejection

You can learn to push through the fear, worry, stress, and over excitement with The Best Guide To Meeting Girls In College!

Common Sense Knowledge

First and foremost, we want to point out that while meeting girls in college requires talking, it ALSO requires listening. Consent is REAL.

If someone doesn’t want to talk to you, don’t shame, blame, or harass them. We all have our own lives going on and right now, for her, life has you two moving in different sequences.

Respect that and move on to the next girl…unless she isn’t interested…then…respect her right to consent and keep looking until you have found someone who values their time and yours.

Secondly, there are a few things that you are just going to have (or do) to meet girls in college. It isn’t anything you haven’t heard but we will cover it with a quick list in case you need a refresher:

  • Be Polite

  • Be Confident

  • Be Authentic

  • Be Noticeable

  • Be Precise

  • Manage Your Appearance

  • Make Eye Contact (We will go deeper into this later)

While we can’t tell you how to be some of these things, we can tell you some tips for using your natural talents to meet college girls!

Meeting College Girls in Social Scenarios


The most well-known scenario for meeting girls is the college party.

Notorious for being wild, loud, and a fantastic gathering of (what is for tonight) the most amazing girls you have ever seen. And after soaking up the vibes of everything going on around you, you want to talk to one of those college girls now.

But what do you do? Approach her? Wait for her to approach you? Talk to one of her friends first? Do something stupid? Maybe Dangerous?

The answer is simple. Pay attention to the situation around you and work your environment to your benefit!

If there is a game she is playing, go over and play.

If she is talking with a group of her friends, invite them all to join in on a party activity.

If she is alone in a corner not talking to anyone, maybe check to see if she needs anything. Maybe she has been waiting for someone to talk to her all night.

If you can juggle, just start juggling, girls will notice and they will come over.

The trick is to add to the situation – not diminish it. Avoid overt gestures that single a girl out or ruin the vibe of the party. If you aren’t sure whether your plan to meet a college girl is something that is going to create unforeseen negative consequences – ask a friend.

Be confident and loosen up a bit. You are at a party for goodness sake!

Sports Games & Organized Activities

Meeting girls at a college sports game is very similar to meeting college girls at parties except you have the benefit of already having an icebreaker to lead with. The score of the game.

While it may not be the most creative line on the planet, it breaks the ice for the conversation to continue. For example:

Dude: “Hey, do you happen to know the score of the game?”

College Female: “Ummm I don’t know, but I think we are winning? I don’t really follow sports, just came to support my friend.”

Dude: “Oh cool, is your friend playing?”

College Female: “No, they are in the marching band.”

Dude: “Right on. Are you into music as well? I am Dude by the way, and you?”

College Girl: “I am College Girl. Yeah, I like music! I play an instrument myself…”

As you can see here, with a simple question related to what is already happening, you can start, build, and continue a conversation with an actual college girl!

If you are someone who never knows what to say, meeting college girls at sports games or other organized campus activities is probably a really good option for you. It is a singular and focused event that sets up every opening line for you.

Meeting College Girls in Low Key Scenarios

The Library

For a lot of students, the library is one of two places: a place to get work done, or a place to blow off work and look for ways to procrastinate while looking like you are getting work done.

If partying isn’t your thing and you prefer to meet a college girl in a setting that has a bit less chaos to it then the library is the perfect spot!

Talking to a girl in a library can be tricky because, as we stated earlier, people are there for a purpose and don’t necessarily want to be disgraced.

Our advice is to make sure that you are not perceived as a distraction. This includes:

  • Comment on a book that she is reading/holding

  • Reach for something that she needs that is out of her reach

  • Find common ground by complaining about the paper you are writing

  • Ask if she knows where the ::insert category:: section is. (Doesn’t matter if you even need it)

At a library, people are focused on the task in front of them. While you might not be able to pull them away from it completely, you can at least do your part with a nice gesture, a curious request, or a mutual dislike for the current day’s work.

No matter how you do it one fact remains: You will be talking to and meeting more girls in college this way than by hiding in the stacks desperate for that girl to come and talk to you.

On campus

Sometimes you just see a girl walking out of class or around campus and you think, I want to meet that girl!

Bogged down by nerves, fear, or a combination of the two you pass and let her go just as you have done any other day.

If you see a college girl walking around and you want to meet her, there are a few things you can do to make that scenario go a lot smoother:

  • Have something that you want to say

  • Make sure that whatever you say isn’t rude, shaming, or “negging”

  • Make eye contact. But also blink. But not too much. Staring creeps everyone out. And not looking at someone makes them feel unimportant. Both things that won’t help you meet girls in college

A good opener for this type of meeting could be:

Hey, I have seen you around campus a few times and always notice your backpack. It is really cool. Where did you get it?”

A line like that is simple, non-threatening, and leads to follow up answers and questions. Those answers and questions could provide the foundation for getting a phone number, making a date, hanging out, studying together, etc.

Things to Never Worry About

We know that as you have been reading this there have probably been a series of what ifs and buts and I just couldn’t running through your mind. We want you to add the following frames of thought to your own as a way of reminding you that you are not alone:

  • Yes. Rejection is real and it hurts. But there are other fish in the sea.

  • You will probably make an ass of yourself in an attempt to meet a girl in college. If it works who cares?

  • No girl is out of your league. You need to get in the game.

  • Funny matters. A lot.

  • Sensitivity Matters. A lot.

  • Your body type is not indicative of the person you are on the inside. You can make someone happy – if you first learn to make yourself happy.

The Takeaway

College is a melting pot of people, interests, and ideas. College girls are part of that pot and if you want to meet them, you need to first find the confidence to talk to them.

Once the first few words are out, it is easy to build a dialogue, learn about mutual interests, throw in a charming compliment or two, and seal the deal – whatever your intentions may be.

By the way, do you know these 10 things about dating a college classmate?

Everyone has their own tastes when it comes to body type, personality, and characteristics.

While you may not be one college girls specific type, it doesn’t mean that there aren’t a million other college girls out there who would really like to get the chance to meet you.

So, take a shower, brush your teeth, put on something that makes you look approachable, and go start meeting girls in college!

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